I am so confused... hence why that is my own OTP...
private vs secret vs not publicized vs who can I talk to vs who I can't....
I think I ought to work on my filters when I get home...
p.s. I have now decided (temporary madness, mind you) that everyone's getting new nicknames from me... when I figure it out. I will therefore call one person "Nick" - she knows who she is - and another person "Boyd" - Nigel should know I'm referring to her.